While I was make these photographs, (there are more then fifty images in this
double panorama) I had an unsettling event take place and it seems important to mention
it here because my guess is it is a sign of the times. A small girl, perhaps three
years of age came rattling down a walkway in the park on a tricycle. Besides me
and my camera there was no one else in this large park and I was extra ordinarily
unsettled. A little girl should not be out there alone and at the same time it was
me, not her who felt endangered. I avoided her and did not speak, nor smile toward
her, I did not want her to think that an old guys in a park is safe and friendly.
I was enormously relieved when I saw a mother almost a block away looking about and
appearing to be searching for that little girl. I waved to her and went over to
her and pointed out the little girl was in the park and really shouldn't be out there
on her own. My comments were not for her safety I was thinking about myself. And,
as a consequence I have decided I will make sure that I do not enter that park or
any other alone and without some one with me. I assure you that I am not really
paranoid but I am concerned that we are approaching a time when a man alone is no
longer free to walk about.
I am certain that it is my background as a counsellor and school administrator that
makes me think this way, but I am sensing major changes in our society. As a principal,
it was in 1981 that I decided I would under no circumstances give a female student
a ride home after some event or whatever. I cautioned my staff at the time and from
then on if some situation developed where a child need to be taken home or somewhere
I made sure I was escorted or that my staff member had someone else with them.
I find it hard to pass someone on a road seeking a ride and when I do stop and pick
some one up I will let a man ride in the front seat but if it is a female or two
females I have them ride in the back. I would suggest that this is prudent. However,
it is a sad commentary on our freedom and our desire to offer aid to others.
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